You will hear a lot about how you should have dreams and not just have some, but also follow your dreams. But life is not just black and white even though bad things happen to you. I still remember how everything felt just black around me when my brother died. But I started to dream in colour and make my dreams come true ever since.
No one is asking you to quit your job, sell everything, leave everything and everyone at home and just travel around the world like I did even though it was the most important and the best decision of my life (and also many others did the same). I always say everything is about the details and it was proved right many times. Yes, even small things can really change a lot. Decisions change life.
In Slovakia, we do not celebrate Thanksgiving at all. But I am sure we should be thankful for so many things in life … and yes, every day, not just at Thanksgiving. A very true cliche.
Besides so many obvious things I am grateful for, such as my family, friends, love and everything I have ever had, there are also some other things.
I am thankful for not being fake because I dislike fake nails, fake boobs, fake eyelashes and most of all fake people. So if I say something to you, I mean it. If I make a face that says something, that’s exactly what I want to say. No secrets of this kind.
I keep hearing how people are jealous of others. Guys tell me that so many women hate me … why? Why they don’t work their ass off harder? Why they don’t exercise more? Why they don’t live healthy? Why they are stuck in job they don’t like? Why they don’t do what they love the most? Because I do all of this. And doing it to get what I want and where I want to be now gives me no time to be jealus of someone else.
I am also thankful for both all the positive and negative moments in my life as they all mean something and they taught me important lessons. I have achieved a lot that means much to me but there have been things I just did not get. Thank you for those too as it’s meant to be this way 🙂
What are you thankful for at Thanksgiving?
You know how it is … you spend days, weeks, months and in the end years trying to impress other people with what you do. But then, why? It is your life, live it the best way possible. The best way you can do. Impress yourself.
Because if I always tried just to please others instead of me, I would still be working as a cabin crew probably and not traveling around the world and having fun. I would have not quit my job back in March 2011 because my parents didn’t want me to. But I did, I impressed myself and not anyone else.